Thoughts on Discouragement
I’ve been writing this blog for over a year.
Don’t get me wrong, I love what I’ve created. I love that I get to share stories, food, photography and happiness with everyone and anyone who has ever read a post, but sometimes I can get a little discouraged.

I would be lying if I told you that I don’t have days where I see how much others’ blogs have progressed, how they have hundreds of comments, are asked to do product reviews or host giveaways and get down on myself.
In fact, I’d by lying if I said I didn’t say “I quit, I’m not doing this anymore,” just a couple days ago when I looked at Friday’s post and had 3 comments total. Then the doubt sets in.
“Was that a bad post?”
“Should I just take it down?”
“What am I doing wrong??”
Then I read posts about someone trying my recipe, or have someone tell me at a bar that they made my cookies or get a comment from a family member in another state and it all seems worth it.

I don’t have a fancy camera.
Or a self-hosted blog.
Or a giant fan base.
And I don’t host giveaways.
Or pump out 10 awesome recipes a week.
Or get voted into food blog competitions.
But that’s okay.
I do this because I love to write and share those stories, food, photography and happiness (and sometimes sarcasm :P) with anyone who happens to come across my little spot on the internet.
And if one day, someone asks me to host a giveaway or I blossom into a famous blog writing dynamo, it will just be an added bonus.
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How do you combat feelings of discouragement?
Do you ever compare yourself to other bloggers?
Lessons from the Weekend
#1 I don’t like cappuccinos.
Ordering a cappuccino might make you feel sophisticated, but drinking half a cup of foam will make me feel like… well like you just drank half a cup of foam.
#2 Bloody Mary > cappuccino.
Especially when it’s extra spicy.
My desire to drink a BM was foiled by the fact that I was about to go to work, but I’m coming for you next time, Spicy Mary.
#3 Wind sucks.
I have no picture proof of this, but the fact that I had dirt all over my face, plus leaves in my purse and my bra can attest to the fact.
#4 I’m never grocery shopping at Safeway again.
Reasons being: worst produce ever, worst organization ever, worst organic supply ever.
Never again, never again.
#5 If you’re short on time, don’t try shopping at the grocery store that has just been remodeled, is hosting a grand opening, and has a line outside the door.
I don’t know what that line was for, I just knew I wasn’t waiting in it.
Hence the trip to Safeway.
#6 If you’re short on time, and because you have to buy groceries at Safeway, slightly irritated, don’t bring your significant other.
Despite what you’d think, having twice the number of shoppers, doesn’t mean it takes half the time.
In fact, it’s probably just the opposite.
Joey gets an A+ for being a good boyfriend, an F for being a good grocery shopper.
#7 There’s a new pancake in town.
Red-Eye Velvet Pancakes Red velvet buttermilk batter topped with espresso infused maple syrup, a touch of cream cheese frosting and chopped pecans.
I die.
And because there was also an Ichabod Crane pancake and a sweet potato pancake on my plate, I was okay with having waited 45 minutes in the wind for a table at Snooze.
Ichabod Crane’s Pancakes Our buttermilk pancakes sprinkled with streusel and topped with pumpkin cream, candied pumpkin seeds, and a chili-spiced Vermont maple syrup.
Which brings me to what is probably the most important lesson of the weekend…
#8 When you wake up to someone whispering “Snooooooze” in your ear, toss all previous plans out the window and go get you a big plate of pancakes.
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What lesson did you learn this weekend?
Are you a fan of all things red velvet? I think we all know my answer.
What are the names of your grocery store? Anyone have a Winn Dixie or a Piggly Wiggly??

